每天爱你多一些

终于盼到你出世的日子， 妈妈的心情既开心又紧张。 看着你那圆圆的脸蛋， 妈妈对你许下了承诺~要好好把你照顾成长。

但原来要实现这承诺， 实际上真的不容易。。。。。。

漆黑的夜里， 邻居都已熟睡， 宝宝你还在不停的哭泣。 你哭了好久， 更在妈妈的怀里挣扎。 妈妈不知所措， 只有和你一起在哭泣。。。。。。

那几天， 你睡在婆婆的房间， 妈妈害怕见到你， 害怕你哭泣。 那几天， 妈妈在阅读， 一本育儿杂志给了妈妈一生受用的领悟 ~ ‘当知己无法安慰孩子时， 了解自己能力的极限， 就会减少自责或无力感。‘

妈妈重新振作， 决定给彼此多一点时间， 开始了解你的情绪。 妈妈的努力， 终于有了成果， 现在你每晚都愿意伏在妈妈的胸口熟睡， 妈妈真的感到无限的安慰！

这一份育儿好心情， 会一直持续， 因为有好心情， 才能更明白你， 给你最好的照顾。 妈妈对你的爱， 随着对你的了解，一天一天的在增加！

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